You’re So Skinny, I Hate You

Written by Other on December 18th, 2008

I cannot tell you how often I have heard those words. Sometimes directed at me, sometimes to colleagues, friends or clients. How does the person speaking those words even begin to think they are a compliment? I hate you is NEVER a compliment. But the true basis of this remark, is of course, envy. It is envy and it is fear. Why did weight become the thing to hate or envy? It is mind boggling to me.

As a Body Image Mentor, I am privileged to guide others out of the prison that eating disorders, food addiction, obesity and poor body image build. As a person, I am privileged to have been on BOTH sides of that prison cell. I was an overweight kid, an overweight teen, and an overweight adult. After losing over 100 pounds in my twenties, I have created a life dedicated to health, fitness and building JOY around those things. No Shame. No Blame. No Envy.

A discussion about envy has been long overdue – and why we don’t inspire and encourage one another instead.

I look forward to a long and vibrant discussion here.

Sincerely, Laura Fenamore, CPCC, Body Image Mastery Mentor
http://www.LauraFenamore.com
415 464 1234

http://www.bodyimagemastery.blogspot.com

 

An Enviable Project

Written by Out of The Blue on November 17th, 2008

Welcome to the blog for the new groundbreaking documentary that will examine the causes and consequences of the most corrosive human emotion:  ENVY. 
 
This bold, insightful, humorous feature documentary by Peabody & Emmy winning filmmaker Barbara Rick will use original and unique devices to tell the story of humanity’s struggle with this primal and destructive force of human nature.

Help us tell the story of ENVY!  Contribute your stories, ideas, artwork, video, music, poetry or other reflections on this rich and sweeping topic for possible inclusion in the film.  Post your ideas right here or contact us in private at:

Out of The Blue Films, Inc.
799 Broadway Suite 609
New York, NY 10003
(212) 477-2211
info@outofthebluefilms.com

 

Hey wow. Envy !!

Written by Jim on November 15th, 2008

What a great topic. Should be interesting

 

Oh, no, not again!!

Written by suziequzie on November 15th, 2008

Dear me, here we go again.  Another perfectly normal human emotion under siege!!  But then again, we know since biblical times at least (though shalt not covet- yada, yada, yada) poor “envy” has had to face down constant attacks on its valuable function in human social intercourse.  Non-pathological envy is merely that feeling that people get when they see or experience something that someone else has that they want.  How wonderful!!  Seeing my friend, Ellen,  chewing Bazooka bubble gum and blowing bubbles when I was five years old I was envious, for sure.  That envy allowed me to go home and tell my parents that I wanted some Bazooka bubble gum for myself and when I got it and blew my own bubbles I was very happy.  That may be one of the earliest conscious memories I had of envy until my own analysis revealed earlier experiences that were more traumatic because I did not have the language or emotional maturity to process them properly.  And, of course, had my parents handled my expressed envy of Ellen’s bubble gum differently it might have developed into pathological envy, which is the source, essentially, of war.  But therein lies the difference, and I hope this blog and documentary will clearly explicate the same.

 

An Enviable Project

Written by Out of The Blue on November 13th, 2008

Welcome to the blog for the new groundbreaking documentary that will examine the causes and consequences of the most corrosive human emotion:  ENVY. 
 
This bold, insightful, humorous feature documentary by Peabody & Emmy winning filmmaker Barbara Rick will use original and unique devices to tell the story of humanity’s struggle with this primal and destructive force of human nature.

Help us tell the story of ENVY!  Contribute your stories, ideas, artwork, video, music, poetry or other reflections on this rich and sweeping topic for possible inclusion in the film.  Post your ideas right here or contact us in private at:

Out of The Blue Films, Inc.
799 Broadway Suite 609
New York, NY 10003
(212) 477-2211
info@outofthebluefilms.com