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Do you ENVY her?

Friday, January 21st, 2011

Interesting post on Salon.com from an escort who writes: To all the girls who ENVY my life…

To all the girls who envy my life

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“There’s something profoundly human about wanting to be sexually valued, and it transcends genders. More than one young man has told me he envies my life, too. I suspect these young men are hinting at the same longing for affirmation as the young women who e-mail me. We all want to know that we matter, and being paid is one way of knowing we have value. It may be inelegant and often impersonal, but because money is quantifiable, its message is indisputable. Where do you go for reassurance if you doubt your physical and sexual desirability? Talk is cheap, so you take cash instead.”

Read the full article “Escort Girl Life” at Salon.com

Check out this new original ENVY tune by CASSIS B

Wednesday, January 19th, 2011

Our friend — the musician, photographer, and all-around artistic talent — Cassis was inspired to write this song after hearing about the ENVY documentary project.  Thank you, Cassis!!

Find out more about Cassis Birgit Staudt here: http://www.filmmusicvision.com/







We like its funky originality. What do you think?

Tunisia Riots & ENVY

Saturday, January 15th, 2011

After reading the New York Times article Behind Tunisia Unrest, Rage Over Wealth of Ruling Family about the riots in Tunisia we asked psychologist and scholar Dr. Carolyn Ellman her thoughts on the role of envy in these riots, she wrote:

The real envy is about the wife who the people see as part of them and are enraged about her acting as if she is above them…  It isn’t really about envying the rich (that’s common enough) but when someone like you gets something that you feel you are excluded from it is a much deeper feeling of destruction. Generally other people that are rich (such as the President) are too far from one’s aspirations to feel them as part of the self.

Dr. Ellman adds

that obviously the amount of abuse that this family committed plus the fact that there are many educated women in Tunisia having to work at menial jobs added to the impetus to overthrow the government. I wouldn’t simply point to envy. Envy shows itself in some aspects of the destructive behavior in which they just wanted to burn and destroy things without any benefit to themselves. Obviously, in the larger picture people are fighting for equal and fair justice in their society.

Pension Envy & Crab Mentality

Friday, January 14th, 2011

I just read a very interesting article about ‘Pension Envy’ by Dave Johnson on Truth-Out.org.  He writes:

Since the 80s many employers have stopped offering health care, pensions and other benefits to their employees. Many are also cutting pay and hours, while increasing the workload. So more and more people are hurting. As more and more of us fall further and further behind, corporate/conservative propagandists use resentment to drive anti-union feelings. They tell people to oppose unions, saying, “Why should they have it so good?” The real question you should ask is, “Why should we have it so bad?”

The article also addresses “crab mentality”:

Crab mentality, sometimes referred to as crabs in the bucket, describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase “if I can’t have it, neither should you.” The metaphor refers to a pot of crabs. Individually, the crabs could easily escape from the pot, but instead, they grab at each other in a useless “king of the hill” competition (or sabotage) which prevents any from escaping and ensures their collective demise. The analogy in human behavior is that of a group that will attempt to “pull down” (negate or diminish the importance of) any member who achieves success beyond the others, out of jealousy, conspiracy or competitive feelings.

Read the whole article here.

New ENVY Sizzle Reel

Monday, November 1st, 2010
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Mario Vargas Llosa & Pablo Neruda

Monday, October 11th, 2010

In a 1990 interview published in the Paris Review Mario Vargas Llosa, winner of the 2010 Nobel Prize in Literature, relates a warning he received from Pablo Neruda about the envious backlash that comes with fame.

I remember the day we celebrated Neruda’s birthday in London. He wanted to have the party on a boat on the Thames. Fortunately, one of his admirers, the English poet Alastair Reid, happened to live on a boat on the Thames, so we were able to organize a party for him. The moment came and he announced that he was going to make a cocktail. It was the most expensive drink in the world with I don’t know how many bottles of Dom Pérignon, fruit juices, and God knows what else. The result, of course, was wonderful, but one glass of it was enough to make you drunk. So there we were, drunk every one of us, without exception. Even so, I still remember what he told me then; something that has proven to be a great truth over the years. An article at the time—I can’t remember what it was about—had upset and irritated me because it insulted me and told lies about me. I showed it to Neruda. In the middle of the party, he prophesied: You are becoming famous. I want you to know what awaits you: the more famous you are, the more you will be attacked like this. For every praise, there will be two or three insults. I myself have a chest full of all the insults, villainies, and infamies a man is capable of withstanding. I wasn’t spared a single one: thief, pervert, traitor, thug, cuckold . . . everything! If you become famous, you will have to go through that.

Neruda told the truth; his prognosis came absolutely true. I not only have a chest, but several suitcases full of articles that contain every insult known to man.
~Mario Vargas Llosa

ENVY Eats You Up…

Wednesday, April 21st, 2010

“Envy eats you up, from the inside out”

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Chilling words from “Finding Melissa.”  This beautifully written blog post that Julia came across reminds us why it is so important to explore ENVY and its consequences.  How many lives can be healed, reclaimed, and transformed by delving into the depths and bringing light to the darker sides of our human nature?

[Photo by Barbara Rick]

The Curse of the Best Actress Oscar?

Friday, March 19th, 2010

What an article!  Shared courtesy of our brilliant consultant/advisor, Carolyn Ellman.   Is there a curse or is it just ENVY that’s plagued the relationships of Hollywood’s most successful leading ladies?  What are your thoughts?

The Curse of the Best Actress Oscar?

Exciting news from Out of The Blue!

Monday, February 1st, 2010

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Congratulations from ENVY Ed

Monday, December 21st, 2009

Congrats from ENVY Ed

From Matt Hoverman, whose participation in ENVY the documentary inspired him to create the magnificent ENVY Ed:

As a playwright, I’ve always been attracted to myth and archetype.  As an actor, I’ve always loved mask work and commedia. And as a 41 year old adolescent, I’m a big fan of comic books.  What these imaginative strains all share is the opportunity to externalize, personify and comically exaggerate a human tendency or character defect.

I know I have many of these little characters in me, and most aren’t pretty.  I picture the envious side of myself as a squat, bilious, unhappy little creature (named ENVY Ed) – who carries in his sallow little heart what John Lithgow once said, “It’s not enough for you to succeed- your best friends must fail.”

That part of me is forever dwelling on the unearned glories of others and his own unlucky misfortunes, and though he can fake a smile at someone else’s success, he’s always got a sharp knife waiting behind his back.  I find that fighting a part of myself like that only makes him grow.  But when I find a way to lovingly laugh at his absurdity, his power over me fades.

Amazing, Matt.  Thank you!

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